the “M” word!

it’s the monday giggles….

Photo from Pinterest.

A few months ago a little bit of “fluff” started showing up around the hips…unexpectedly. 

Nothing drastic, but enough to cause me some personal uncomfortableness.

Along with the fluff came some very unusual feelings, as well.  Often accompanied by an inferno setting up residence in my body!

Finally,  having enough of this unusual “fluff & feelings,”  I sought medical answers.

As many more mature females who are reading may have already suspected, the Dr’s diagnosis was of a hormonal nature.  The dreaded “M” word was mentioned, which was later confirmed with further diagnostic testing.

Indeed, I’d entered the “fun” phase of femininity….menopause.

WTF = Whiskey, Tango, Foxtrot. But really, Sam Elliot???????? Photo from Pinterest.

So compassionate was my doctor when the diagnosis was confirmed she offered her time to further discuss solutions for my most pervasive symptoms.   During my follow-up appointment she suggested we discuss the top three symptoms I was experiencing and strategize how best to address them.  She sweetly explained there were many pharmaceutical aides which she would be willing to prescribe to assist me in getting the hormones back in order; however, I felt very confident, I sheepishly explained, that I really only wanted to discuss one invasive menopausal matter.

It was really quite simple….

“How do I address the feeling of wanting to punch everyone in the face?”


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After a healthy giggle my appointment ended shortly thereafter.

In all seriousness,

 in typical fashion, I had already sought out a fun solution to the situation I currently found myself and my good-natured Doctor gave her stamp of approval to simply try it out!

I’d discovered that how you react to menopause will depend on many things but a negative attitude is never recommended.  And so I decided to embrace the roller-coaster of emotions which accompany the “M” word and prescribed my own healthy way of strapping in for the hot-flash-ridden ride!


My first gloves from Level Red boxing!

There’s a fairly new form of exercise being embraced in our local community, Level Red Boxing and after some personal investigating I was able to confirm that yes, at Level Red Boxing, they trust menopausal woman with a pair of their own boxing gloves!!


I’ve been boxing for a few months now but noticed the positive affects almost immediately!  The extra fluff is almost all gone and now; when those unusual roller-coaster of emotions arise, I have the perfect way to release them positively!

And the unexpected bonus with Level Red Boxing has been: when you’re looking to celebrate the great results you’ve had – they let you bring friends with you to add to the fun! 


hugs n’ blessings for all those seeking positive solutions to the unusual-ness of life!

*and an extra hug n’ blessing for my wonderful sister who pulled together a fun-filled video of a very special boxing birthday celebration, my mom for being the most enthusiastic brow-wiping cheerleader, and Nicole who is the BEST. INSTRUCTOR. EVER!


“A joyful heart is good medicine…”

Proverbs 17:22

5 thoughts on “the “M” word!

    1. You mean you didn’t “know???” Giggles! No pics allowed on the bags, but now that you mention it…… (JK.) And one must always remember to be “A Lady” in all matters. 😊


  1. Thank you dear One, Your often humorous take on life never ceases to be a blessing. if you can think of ‘M’ as part of God’s Purpose and Plan for life it helps a bit when you are only one step short of strangling someone, but….do and I am sincere here, be prayerfully very careful about what treatments you take during this difficult life phase. I had a special doctor who cautioned me……’.Faye never, never, without full investigation ever take HRT or interfere with the natural flow of your body.’ This dear man …..passed away in 2015. I prayerfully went through the years of M. and thankfully only went with ‘natural’ remedies. Years later when breast cancer developed it was said…….’Thank God you did not take HRT. At least we know now we are dealing with natural reactions of your particular body and progressive quite high hormone levels even in an (elderly person). My scares have always been uniquely about me and even in recent times I have heard the Lord clearly say in my heart NO! to something lovingly suggested to be an ‘added’ guard to my life. Keep blogging through the next few years and let us know sometimes about the journey. The end of the tunnel is truly a GREAT Time of ‘freedom’ and advancing twilight years BUT……..LIFE! EVER ABUNDANT LIFE! Blessings and Love.

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    1. Faye, your encouragements are always dearly appreciated! As with you, prayer is my preferred prescription along with added doses of ‘natural’ supplements, such as the boxing. I’m not sure yet if it is the natural release of endorphins which comes from the heavy work-out, or the amount of time spent giggling which has indeed GREATLY improved the “M” attitude! Either way, I will take the positive outcome it is producing. I am proud of you for listening to your intuitive spirit as you progressed through the M path and find great courage in doing the same. I pray your own health situation is improving and continue to lift you up in prayer…. And I do hope to experience the great ‘freedom’ to which you speak one day! Hugs my dear friend!


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